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Wednesday, October 16, 2013

10 Reasons why we (I) don't have kid(s)


1. Best before date: 8/9/2003. Yeah at this moment, I'm pretty stale.

2. 9 month of mood swing? ("ARE YOU F***ING KIDDING ME??!!")

3. I'm much more interested having a dog. Or three.

4. Vomited is not my cup of tea. In the morning I prefer to have coffee, bread and Nutella.

5. I don't see having one as guarantee good investment of happiness and prosperity.

6. I'm selfish. (too early too tell?)

7. I only want to see what he/she will look like.

8. I'm too lazy to lose all the baby "gain". (I already work hard enough as is)

9. Seeing my 85 yo neighbor whose 55 yo ex-con son just move back in to his house with his girlfriend and two kids. Has no job all his life, the couple is daily fighting like two stray dogs, and old dude has to support the whole family financially and mentally.
Yeah, that scene just dries up my uterus. Instantly.

10. Love unconditionally. Just like life time warranty, usually we forget we have one.


Though, I heard a lot people says "Who will take care of you when you're old? And you will be die lonely. 
First of all, you will die alone. No matter what. 

Second, reason to have children so they will take care of you when you're old. 
Base on my observation, this is what I think about the "take care" part: 
Your kids will be busy. Period.
And they will think you have nothing to do and eventually they will leave their own kids to you to "take care". 

A friend told me once, be grateful when your kids remember your birthday or even invited you to their wedding. 


Bottom line:
I must say I'm a responsible woman who knows my limit, my boundaries and my ability. At this age, I know that I'm not strong enough to raise child(ren) healthy or not.
Though I have high respect to all the people who raised great children out there.
Still it saddened me that many children left abandon, abused, hungry and out of love.

SEX.
Yeah it's fun making them.
Well... isn't that a sex mood killer? Better than condom, I must say.

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